One day I was browsing in my usual drugstore in Hawaii, Lil Tot in tow, when I spied something in the Sally Hansen nail products aisle
that stopped me in my tracks. Ardell Duralash Eyelash Extension Kit. DIY eyelash extensions???!
It was mid-2007, Talika Lipocils seemed to be taking over the world, and I was toying with the idea of forking over the $40 for a tube. I’ve always had sparse, light brown lashes with blonde roots – so I’ve had to gunk on tons of mascara to get full coverage all the way to my eyelids to completely disguise the blonde part. (Which I’ve found almost impossible anyway.) I’d considered getting them dyed before, but the side effects and potential for disaster (blindness, anyone?) had scared me off. After having my son, I noticed my eyelashes were falling out about the same time the hair on my head was [if you didn’t know, about 6 weeks – 4 months after having a baby your body begins shedding all the hair that it held onto during pregnancy; normally you lose about 100 hairs a day but during pregnancy your hair does not shed at the same rate – we’ve all heard that your hair gets thick and luscious during pregnancy, right? It’s in part due to less shedding…which commences abruptly and often in large clumps after delivery, just FYI]. So I was looking to do something about the situation…and being such a do-it-yourselfing frugalista, I figured I wouldn’t be stepping into a salon anytime soon.
I was so intrigued by the concept of the eyelash extension kit, I just had to try them. They were pretty affordable, too – at around $11 for a pack. So I took them home, and after my son was asleep for the night I spent about an hour and a half grappling with them and applying them.
The next day, it was amazing. I got so many compliments wherever I went – from the women in my Mom’s Club asking: “Did you do something different?” to the lady at the grocery checkout line telling me I had beautiful eyes. Amazing!! And even more amazing, the lashes I had applied so painstakingly over that hour-and-a-half lasted….3 and a half WEEKS. Absolutely incredible.
So since then, I’ve been hooked on Ardell Duralash. Not too long afterwards I started seeing ads for expertly-applied eyelash extensions in the Japanese magazines I was reading, and eventually went to a salon in Tokyo to have them applied ($84 for 120 lashes!!…back in 2008, though it’s more pricey now). But since I don’t go to Tokyo more than once a year (and salons that apply extensions here in the U.S. are few and far between and AMAZINGLY expensive at $150 – $400 for a full set of extensions) this DIY version is much more doable.
Now, eyelash extensions are not something that should be worn continuously. As your natural eyelashes grow, the extensions start to twist in different directions and poke you in the eye, or get matted in the corners of your eyes. The glue is annoying and crusty, and visible in closeups (unless you get them done by an expert). You don’t ever want to get the glue in your eyes or on your eyelids, since it will burn and possibly cause damage. You can’t rub your eyes or else you run the risk of pulling the extensions off. You can’t wear mascara or eyelash conditioner on your lashes at the glueline since both will dissolve the glue. And with extended weight on your eyelashes for long periods of time, your natural eyelashes can become brittle and prone to breaking off. You will want to give your eyelashes a “rest” in-between wearing the extensions, so they can get healthy and flourish during their natural growing cycle, and you may have to regularly use an eyelash conditioner to undo the damage. Plus, I’m not an expert and am not dispensing medical advice – if you choose to follow, please do so at your own risk!!
So, if you do want to try out Ardell Durlash, they are available online where I’ve linked above, and in the Sally Hansen/false eyelash section of your drugstore (at least here in the States, I’m not sure about internationally). The only version I’ve seen for years includes eyelashes that are wide, fanning clumps – not the kind they used to have (the slimline, bundled clump which I used in the below tutorial). But the application method is the same: (WARNING: There’s a lot of close-up photos of my eye in the tute below, so if you find close-up photos of [my] eyes gross, skip it!)
*Ardell Duralash Eyelash Extension Kit (my old kit is on the left; currently sold kit is on the right)
*magnifying stand mirror (it’s sooooo much easier when your mirror is on a stand!!)
*small pieces of foil
*tiny scissors (optional), not pictured
*tissue (optional), not pictured
*lampstand if you need more light, not pictured
[The tweezers, LashTite adhesive, and set of lashes are all included in the kit.]
The Before photo. I was startled by how much I look like Steve Buscemi in the above photo. :-/
1. Open up the kit, pull out the tweezers and Eyelash Adhesive. Fold the piece of foil so it’s doubled-over.
2. Pour a small amount of the adhesive onto the foil (about the size of a pea).
Grasp one of the shorter eyelashes near the end (just beyond the curve in the center) with the tweezers, and dip the knotted end into the adhesive. Allow a tiny bead of adhesive to form on the underside of the knot before you apply.
3. Close one eye and use your other hand to hold the eyelid taut while you are applying. (I like to start in the middle of my eye and fan out from there, but it’s up to you.) Carefully place the lash ON TOP of your top lashes.
Use the tweezers to squeeze the lash onto your natural lashes, and open your eye and squeeze the lashes together (being careful not to touch the gluey end). Wait for a few seconds, and the glue should dry and adhere to your natural lashes. DON’T touch or try to shift the extension lashes at all after a few seconds, or else you could pull them off.
4. Repeat with the shorter lashes, applying in towards your nose, and then outwards towards the outer corner of your eye.
Change to the medium- or even the longer-length lashes near and at the outer corners of your eyes for a natural look.
5. If you find the application doesn’t look as “full” as you like, go back in and apply the shorter lashes in-between what you’ve already applied. If you drop the lashes or the glue dries too fast before you can place them on your natural lashes, you can wait a few seconds, and use your fingers to “ball up” the glue and pull it off the lashes, and then re-apply glue and start over. If you get glue on your natural lashes where you aren’t applying the extensions, pull off the glue as quickly as you can before it dries using your fingers (you can also use Adhesive Remover, included in the kit, on a tissue to remove extra gobs of glue). I also find that as I’m going back in and filling in the lashes, I can use my fingers to grasp the lashes and then “squeeze” them onto my lashline since I have all the applied lashes to grip and press against.
6. Once you’re happy with one eye, count the number of lashes you end up applying. Then apply the same amount and sizes to the other eye so they match. For me (since I’ve done this many, many times), the whole process takes about 30 minutes, and I usually do it while watching some bad late-night TV.
7. (Optional) I find that straight out of the kit the lashes are a little long for me for daily wear, so I like to trim them with nail scissors. DON’T simply cut the ends straight up or else they’ll look weird; you want to half-close the scissors and pull the blades down the length of each clump of the lashes so they snip the ends at different lengths (kind of like how you would “feather” your bangs or hair if you were cutting it). Always snip just a little – you can go back and cut more if you want. And DON’T cut your natural lashes!!
Once all dry, take care of them – no scrubbing or pulling; avoid contact with soaps/makeup/makeup remover; and be extra careful when you wake up in the morning and want to rub the “grit” out of your eyes – because a lot of it is GLUE that needs to be there!! Your natural lashes will shed as time goes on, and the glue will weaken and the extensions fall off, so you can choose to re-apply more, or use the Remover that was in the kit to remove them all.
No more Steve Buscemi! And the best thing is, I wake up in the morning, look in the mirror, and feel pretty immediately…without makeup, without washing my face or doing my hair…it’s truly amazing what a different a pair of lashes make!
But they’re still long-lasting lash extensions for a fraction of the cost!
I know, I know – here I am advocating poking at your eye with sharp instruments and a pair of scissors, not to mention toxic, smelly glue and bristly clumps of eyelashes. FOLLOW AT YOUR OWN RISK!!